doomed for divorce?

Today I got home early and I turned on Tyra because the subject actually seemed interesting. It was asking couples are you doomed for divorce. They had a panel of 3 people, a psychologist, money advisor and a priest. A great panel and the priest was off the chain. Can someone please tell me if they still use that saying, off the chain, or is it something new. But, anywho, it was actually a good show and I really don't care for Tyra. I think she is fake. But anyways.

The first couple, the guy was trying to be a good man and get along with his girlfriend's mother. Mom's didn't care for him too much. And the girl had an attitude that her mom has been there for her always, so she was going to listen to her mom. I have a few words for this guy. Run Forrest Run. I have been in that situation and if she is going to listen to her mom over him. She is telling him, my mom is more important than you. And the crazy thing about that was, the three people on the panel said the same thing. That's not a a good thing cause when you get married you are supposed to leave mom and dad behind and live your life. And if you have struggles, you have to cling to one another and make it work. If they are always running to mommy and daddy, then you will never have a say so in the house. Not a good thing.

The other couple, the woman didn't want her man in her money matters. She felt that it was her money and what she did with her money is her business and none on his. But, the crazy part is, he was helping her pay her bills. He is paying the bills and she didn't want to show him her bills and she stated that her money is her money. Guess what. Run Forrest Run. Again, if she thinks and feels that she can spend her money any way she wants to, and he is going to bail her out. We know this ain't going to work. Another not a good thing. The biggest argument in any relationship is money, and it will be the biggest if you don't work it out together. People who don't fuss about money alot are those who work towards the same goal and they work on their budget together.

Let me know how you feel. Are they doomed for divorce.