Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Poem - Apologize

Apologize

I came to the realization

That an apology will never come

Your pride will not allow you to be wrong

I had your back

I picked you up when you fell

Dusted you off and pushed you in the right direction of greatness

Tied your bootstraps when you stumbled

Brought you to the top of your game

And what did I get??

Ridicule

Disgust

My will broken, faith diminished

Dreams deferred

Love denied and held for ransom

Mentally beaten, emotionally devastated

I’ve done so much for you

During the years together and apart

It took an act of the Almighty and several issues

To realize that it was all a lie

To admit that it was all wrong

And walk away from you

I had to realize

That you were a disease

That I needed to be cured from

To get rid of you would be my salvation

For all of the things wrong with our unholy union

I know you will never apologize to me

After all, you are always right

It’s not in you to admit

Too late

The bridges have been burned

Olive branches used as kindling

Just walk away and never look back

Real men apologize, but we know that you aren’t one of them.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

To all the idiots....

Yeah this is my testament to the stupid idiot that had nothing better to do than to go on a blog in which I haven't touched in over a year to say simple minded comments on a poem that I didn't even write!

I would have gone on a expletive-filled rant, but that will only push me to your level. However, I will respond to your name-calling first amendment expression.

That poem must have REALLY struck a nerve with you, didn't it?? From the filth that came forth from your little fingers, you must have had your man taken away from you in this fashion. Let me be the one to apologize. I will apologize to you for not taking the time out to learn all the needs, wants, and desires that your man had and you decided that you didn't want to know about it. I apologize to you for not satisfying your man the right way - mentally, physically, and emotionally. I apologize to you that the woman that wrote that poem wasn't me, but I understand where that woman is coming from, and it should be a lesson to you.

I apologize that my nickname bothers you so much. I apologize that the Homewrecker is not from the ghetto, as you so lovingly put it, but by way of Capital Hill, one of the wealthiest sections of Washington, DC. I apologize that I carry myself like the diva that I am, and I command respect, and give respect in return. I apologize that I am college-educated and not a "classless twat". I can only assume that he must have called you that at some point in your miserable life. I apologize that I am not a "grubby little bitch", but I am the Head Bitch in Charge. Oh, that's right - you think I envy you because you are an "accomplished woman"? No, I don't envy you, but I do feel sorry for you. Most accomplished women lead very empty lives because they lost themselves in that bourgeois world.

As the passage goes (Matthew 16:26):
"For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?"

Sunday, June 8, 2008

15 Simple Ways to Keep Your Partner Happy

15 Simple Ways to Keep Your Partner Happy
By David Wygant Updated: May 27, 2008


So you're in a relationship and your partner starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."
It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.
Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:
1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.
4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."
5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.
9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!
13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.
14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.
It can be simple to keep her satisfied. It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all.

Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips

Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips
Mature seduction are sometimes seen by men as something harder than ordinary seduction. The reason for them to have this perception is that seducing an older woman or having any close relationship with them is a society taboo. However, this is not really a problem in this modern world unless you are still having the stone age mindset. Mature seduction is just like any other ordinary seduction but on the seduction skills that you can apply, small modifications will need to be made to suit the personalities of older women.

Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #1 Be Independent
Older women wants security when it comes to establishing a close relationship with a man. Even though you might not be looking for a close relationship in seduction but it is very important that you win her trust by showing her that her future is secured with you by being independent. Stop whining about the office to her. Instead, tell her about you grand 10 years plan to be successful and what will you to in order to reach the height.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #2 Watch What You Wear
Stop being childish and wear clothes with rainbow colors. You will need to prefer the suits and shirts more rather than teenage years T-shirt. Also, make sure that your outfit is nicely iron as it will show how neat are you. Older women do not like the person that they linger around with to be special. They will just want you to be plain and nice. Thus, just a simple shirt and pants combination will be able to win her hard for proceedings towards mature seduction.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #3 Confidence is Gold
When it comes to seducing older women, confidence always work out great. Be proud of yourself and tell her things that you have accomplished over the years. Make her see you as a person that loves competition and will be ready for anything, especially protecting her. Again, the point of doing so is to provide her with the sense of security. She is in her stage of life which is sometimes very tired to have a partner that seems to be adding more burden on her.

Friday, April 11, 2008

10 Tips on Scoring Hotel Upgrades

10 Tips on Scoring Hotel Upgrades


Getting a better room is easier than you might think – and it never hurts to ask

Most travelers never think to ask for a hotel room upgrade, which is regrettable. During the off-season, large hotels frequently run high vacancy rates, and moving a guest into a nicer room doesn't cost anything except for some extra laundry expenses. As with so many other things in life, there is simply no harm in asking politely.

An upgrade doesn't have to mean a larger room. Perhaps it's an ocean view, a king-size bed, or a room in an especially quiet wing. The important thing to remember is that hotel upgrades are mostly about personal relationships, rather than loyalty programs or special credit cards (though those can certainly be helpful).

Upgrades are given at the discretion of the hotel manager or the front desk clerk. These people tend to receive a fair amount of grief from finicky guests on a regular basis, and they appreciate being treated with respect and patience. Acting entitled or being deceitful usually won't help your case – these are professionals who have seen it all before.

Dress nicely, and be as friendly as possible, even if you're exhausted after a long flight. Inquire about an upgrade after you've given your name, but before you've been assigned your room. Do a little research on rooms beforehand, and make a specific request (e.g., "Would it be possible to be upgraded to an executive suite at no extra charge?").

Simply asking for a "better room" is not as effective as requesting a particular room using the hotel's terminology (Central Park Suite, Harbor View Suite, etc.). Don't be disappointed if an upgrade is not possible – this is a matter of availability, after all.

In large city hotels, upgrades are more likely during weekend, due to the absence of business travelers. For smaller hideaways in scenic locales, your chances are better during the week. Frequent visitors or members of various hotel reward programs will gain preferential treatment, but more often than not, hotel management is happy to lend a favor to a calm, amiable guest. It's good for business.

Here are 10 tips for securing a hotel room upgrade.

1. Contact Management Before You Arrive: If you are celebrating a special occasion, feel free to mention this in an email. A personable and enthusiastic call to confirm your reservation also can help.

2. Book a Mid-Range Room: You're more likely to be upgraded from a mid-range room than the cheapest room in the hotel.

3. Time It Right: Large city hotels tend to be busier during the workweek. For a smaller hideaway in the country, try for a midweek booking if you have some flexibility.

4. Arrive During Mid-Afternoon: Checking in between 3 and 5 is optimal. The front desk clerk will have a better sense of the day's bookings and cancellations.

5. Look the Part: Dress appropriately. A nice jacket can make a world of difference. If you're traveling with tired children, it probably won't hurt to have someone mind them in the lobby while you're at the front desk.

6. Be Personable: Ask nicely. Mention that you'd be happy to reference the counter clerk's name in customer evaluations.

7. Be Specific: For example: "Would it be possible to be upgraded to an ocean view?" If you have a preferred room that you've stayed in before, feel free to mention it.

8. Mention Relationships: If your company does a lot of business with the hotel, feel free to mention it. If you use a travel service or a credit card that has a "special relationship" with the hotel, by all means, pipe up.

9. Take Advantage of Minor Misfortune: Laundry gone missing? Noisy neighbors? Kindly let management know that an upgrade will wipe the slate clean.

10. Leave On a Happy Note: A nice tip for the doorman. Smiles for the concierge. A note of approval to the manager. Every little bit helps, especially for the next time around.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Proving Me Right

I would like to thank everyone that has sent me emails or notes responding to my open letter. As I have had many positive responses, at the same time, a weasel gets in and proves me right.

Case in point, a guy using the Yahoo ID jessejamescollado. I talked to him 3 times on Yahoo IM in the span of 3 months. Twice this guy asks me if I have a cam. From past experience, anytime a guy asks a girl for her cam, he wants a free peep show. Yes, I shut him down twice. The third time he asked me for pics. I am sitting here like WTF? When I point it out to him that he is a pervert asking me for my cam twice, he tried to deny that he has ever talked to me. (ok, do I have stupid written across my forehead?) When I pointed it out to him that I had chatted with him 3 times, he acted like he had NO CLUE! C'mon really? Hell, i even gave him an alibi by saying that someone may have been playing on your Yahoo. He actually answered yes! I promptly told him that he needs to stop playing games, called him a pervert for the 3rd time and put him in the Super Iggy Bin.

Friday, March 21, 2008

Yahoo IM messages


I know a lot of people have asked about my Yahoo IM messages that are displayed beside my name. Well here is a small breakdown of the common messages so people wont be sending that famous acronym WTF??

Calling Ghetto Dr. Phil - I am chatting with someone that has a lot of issues and need someone that will give them objective advice. Sometimes they listen, most times they don't, and what I tell them comes full circle.

Having a Pinky and Brain moment - (If you ever watched cartoons, think of the Animaniacs' Pinky and the Brain.) This is twofold; If I am having a bad day at the office, the sign will go up. 95% of the time, it is my crazy-ass 'boss' in NC that has hatched another hair-brained scheme to take over the world, and I as his president tries not to attempt to catch a case (or commit myself under a 51-50) trying to stop him.

VoluptuousDCDiva - I'm in a basic Diva mood. Most of the time I am ranting about something in my personal life.

KARMUL - I am working on something related to Karmul. Simply hit me up and I'll tell you what's new on the Karmul horizon.