This year has taught me a lot of things, and I was both humbled and grateful. I accept everything that happened to me in 2011, and have no regrets about it. There is a reason that I went through the burning sands in 2011. The struggle is going to make me stronger. The changes will be coming in 2012. A fresh start awaits me. A new day has begun. I have learned more about me this year than any other year in my years on this side of the dirt. This year, I have learned what made me tick, and learned to stop holding my tongue (like I ever stopped in the first place).
This year, 2011, was my season of rain. In 2012 my earth will harden under my feet and I will be standing on solid ground. If you loved me, I loved you. If I was your friend or family, then I will continue to be the same person. If you talked about me, good or bad, I see it as free publicity. If you hated me, you probably didn't understand me or didn't take the time out to get to know me.
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Here and now...
Well I started, well I should say restarted this blog because of the craziness on the other blog called The Retired Homewrecker. The name Homewrecker was 'given' to me by a few little boys who thought they could play the player, but when the heat was turned up, couldn't play the game and got burned in the end.
The blog came about when I got tired of the games men and women play on each other. This blog is the basis for people for use to get info on how to play the game better, and to share your stories.
I will move my original blog The Retired Homewrecker to its new home here. As a warning, all people that read and comment on this blog better come correct and ready to explain your 2 cents to the world (and to me) because you will get raked across the coals. I do not hold my tongue and will not start doing it either.
In the words of my main man Tank...
"I’m about to spill the truth on these niggas and I know I’m a lose a fan...
So don’t shout me out now nigga
Don’t quote my songs
Don’t gas me up now killer
Don’t write them wrongs
Don’t say you knew me then playa
And then try to serve me now waiter
Cause I could use you better as a hater"
Signed,
The Original Quiet Storm
The blog came about when I got tired of the games men and women play on each other. This blog is the basis for people for use to get info on how to play the game better, and to share your stories.
I will move my original blog The Retired Homewrecker to its new home here. As a warning, all people that read and comment on this blog better come correct and ready to explain your 2 cents to the world (and to me) because you will get raked across the coals. I do not hold my tongue and will not start doing it either.
In the words of my main man Tank...
"I’m about to spill the truth on these niggas and I know I’m a lose a fan...
So don’t shout me out now nigga
Don’t quote my songs
Don’t gas me up now killer
Don’t write them wrongs
Don’t say you knew me then playa
And then try to serve me now waiter
Cause I could use you better as a hater"
Signed,
The Original Quiet Storm
Monday, November 28, 2011
Dammit bitches!
Yes! I said dammit bitches! This poem has been on my blog for YEARS!!! I am not the owner of the poem! However, I have to say my 2 fucking cents on all these anonymously written responses to this poem.
ALL YOU BITCHES NEED TO OWN UP TO WHAT YOU ARE SAYING ON THIS BLOG!!!
Every woman on this planet has at one time or another, knowingly or unknowingly, has BEEN THE OTHER DAMN WOMAN! HELL, I will admit to it that I have been the one that was cheated on and the other woman. I know all about what the poem dictates. I need for all of you to keep it one hundred not just with me but also to yourself. PUT YOUR FUCKING NAME WHERE YOUR ASS TYPED!
Do you feel better about yourself when you come on my blog and speak your mind without remorse? I bet that all of you assholes have Facebook pages and will post all of your intimate details there, but you cant own up to a years old blog?!?!? Come on, son!
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Poem - Apologize
Apologize
I came to the realization
That an apology will never come
Your pride will not allow you to be wrong
I had your back
I picked you up when you fell
Dusted you off and pushed you in the right direction of greatness
Tied your bootstraps when you stumbled
Brought you to the top of your game
And what did I get??
Ridicule
Disgust
My will broken, faith diminished
Dreams deferred
Love denied and held for ransom
Mentally beaten, emotionally devastated
I’ve done so much for you
During the years together and apart
It took an act of the Almighty and several issues
To realize that it was all a lie
To admit that it was all wrong
And walk away from you
I had to realize
That you were a disease
That I needed to be cured from
To get rid of you would be my salvation
For all of the things wrong with our unholy union
I know you will never apologize to me
After all, you are always right
It’s not in you to admit
Too late
The bridges have been burned
Olive branches used as kindling
Just walk away and never look back
Real men apologize, but we know that you aren’t one of them.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
To all the idiots....
Yeah this is my testament to the stupid idiot that had nothing better to do than to go on a blog in which I haven't touched in over a year to say simple minded comments on a poem that I didn't even write!
I would have gone on a expletive-filled rant, but that will only push me to your level. However, I will respond to your name-calling first amendment expression.
That poem must have REALLY struck a nerve with you, didn't it?? From the filth that came forth from your little fingers, you must have had your man taken away from you in this fashion. Let me be the one to apologize. I will apologize to you for not taking the time out to learn all the needs, wants, and desires that your man had and you decided that you didn't want to know about it. I apologize to you for not satisfying your man the right way - mentally, physically, and emotionally. I apologize to you that the woman that wrote that poem wasn't me, but I understand where that woman is coming from, and it should be a lesson to you.
I apologize that my nickname bothers you so much. I apologize that the Homewrecker is not from the ghetto, as you so lovingly put it, but by way of Capital Hill, one of the wealthiest sections of Washington, DC. I apologize that I carry myself like the diva that I am, and I command respect, and give respect in return. I apologize that I am college-educated and not a "classless twat". I can only assume that he must have called you that at some point in your miserable life. I apologize that I am not a "grubby little bitch", but I am the Head Bitch in Charge. Oh, that's right - you think I envy you because you are an "accomplished woman"? No, I don't envy you, but I do feel sorry for you. Most accomplished women lead very empty lives because they lost themselves in that bourgeois world.
As the passage goes (Matthew 16:26):
"For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?"
I would have gone on a expletive-filled rant, but that will only push me to your level. However, I will respond to your name-calling first amendment expression.
That poem must have REALLY struck a nerve with you, didn't it?? From the filth that came forth from your little fingers, you must have had your man taken away from you in this fashion. Let me be the one to apologize. I will apologize to you for not taking the time out to learn all the needs, wants, and desires that your man had and you decided that you didn't want to know about it. I apologize to you for not satisfying your man the right way - mentally, physically, and emotionally. I apologize to you that the woman that wrote that poem wasn't me, but I understand where that woman is coming from, and it should be a lesson to you.
I apologize that my nickname bothers you so much. I apologize that the Homewrecker is not from the ghetto, as you so lovingly put it, but by way of Capital Hill, one of the wealthiest sections of Washington, DC. I apologize that I carry myself like the diva that I am, and I command respect, and give respect in return. I apologize that I am college-educated and not a "classless twat". I can only assume that he must have called you that at some point in your miserable life. I apologize that I am not a "grubby little bitch", but I am the Head Bitch in Charge. Oh, that's right - you think I envy you because you are an "accomplished woman"? No, I don't envy you, but I do feel sorry for you. Most accomplished women lead very empty lives because they lost themselves in that bourgeois world.
As the passage goes (Matthew 16:26):
"For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?"
Sunday, June 8, 2008
15 Simple Ways to Keep Your Partner Happy
15 Simple Ways to Keep Your Partner Happy
By David Wygant Updated: May 27, 2008
So you're in a relationship and your partner starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."
It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.
Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:
1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.
4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."
5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.
9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!
13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.
14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.
It can be simple to keep her satisfied. It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all.
By David Wygant Updated: May 27, 2008
So you're in a relationship and your partner starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."
It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.
Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:
1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.
4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."
5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.
9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!
13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.
14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.
It can be simple to keep her satisfied. It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips
Mature seduction are sometimes seen by men as something harder than ordinary seduction. The reason for them to have this perception is that seducing an older woman or having any close relationship with them is a society taboo. However, this is not really a problem in this modern world unless you are still having the stone age mindset. Mature seduction is just like any other ordinary seduction but on the seduction skills that you can apply, small modifications will need to be made to suit the personalities of older women.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #1 Be Independent
Older women wants security when it comes to establishing a close relationship with a man. Even though you might not be looking for a close relationship in seduction but it is very important that you win her trust by showing her that her future is secured with you by being independent. Stop whining about the office to her. Instead, tell her about you grand 10 years plan to be successful and what will you to in order to reach the height.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #2 Watch What You Wear
Stop being childish and wear clothes with rainbow colors. You will need to prefer the suits and shirts more rather than teenage years T-shirt. Also, make sure that your outfit is nicely iron as it will show how neat are you. Older women do not like the person that they linger around with to be special. They will just want you to be plain and nice. Thus, just a simple shirt and pants combination will be able to win her hard for proceedings towards mature seduction.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #3 Confidence is Gold
When it comes to seducing older women, confidence always work out great. Be proud of yourself and tell her things that you have accomplished over the years. Make her see you as a person that loves competition and will be ready for anything, especially protecting her. Again, the point of doing so is to provide her with the sense of security. She is in her stage of life which is sometimes very tired to have a partner that seems to be adding more burden on her.
Mature seduction are sometimes seen by men as something harder than ordinary seduction. The reason for them to have this perception is that seducing an older woman or having any close relationship with them is a society taboo. However, this is not really a problem in this modern world unless you are still having the stone age mindset. Mature seduction is just like any other ordinary seduction but on the seduction skills that you can apply, small modifications will need to be made to suit the personalities of older women.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #1 Be Independent
Older women wants security when it comes to establishing a close relationship with a man. Even though you might not be looking for a close relationship in seduction but it is very important that you win her trust by showing her that her future is secured with you by being independent. Stop whining about the office to her. Instead, tell her about you grand 10 years plan to be successful and what will you to in order to reach the height.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #2 Watch What You Wear
Stop being childish and wear clothes with rainbow colors. You will need to prefer the suits and shirts more rather than teenage years T-shirt. Also, make sure that your outfit is nicely iron as it will show how neat are you. Older women do not like the person that they linger around with to be special. They will just want you to be plain and nice. Thus, just a simple shirt and pants combination will be able to win her hard for proceedings towards mature seduction.
Sure Success Mature Seduction Tips #3 Confidence is Gold
When it comes to seducing older women, confidence always work out great. Be proud of yourself and tell her things that you have accomplished over the years. Make her see you as a person that loves competition and will be ready for anything, especially protecting her. Again, the point of doing so is to provide her with the sense of security. She is in her stage of life which is sometimes very tired to have a partner that seems to be adding more burden on her.
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